Sunday, January 28, 2007

追偶像

Accompany my godsister to 飛輪海簽名會in the evening to day. Me nearly fainted ha...
Why??? Because seeing the young people queueing up, me really have to 五體投地.

Ok, I admit that I have done that once when I'm much younger ha (seems like me very old liao).
I also went for 熊天平's signature donkey years ago. I had his signature in one of my album ha.
But guess I'm not as "rich" and "powerful" as those "mei mei" I saw just now. They really booked cab and I heard that the cab is about $250 per day... they all damn rich loh...

Anyway I just accompanied her to queue for an hour, then me surrender liao... sit down with my parents at Macdonald to wait for her. In the end, after a long wait, she did not get their signature still, really cannot make it, waste my time. All thanks to the 4 handsome guys, guess they really have to improve on their speed in signing the album.

After all the chaotic situations just now, its time for me to rest peacefully at home liao. Got to prepare for work tomorrow, must work hard.

Sunday, January 21, 2007

The A to Z of Relationships

I was reading magazine "DUET" and find this section quite interesting.
It describes some tips on making a relationship work.

A - Affection
B - Boundaries
C - Communication
D - Dirty little secret
E - Expectations
F - Flirting
G - Gestures
H - Hugs
I - "If only"
J - Judgement
K - Kissing
L - Letting go of the past
M - Making the first move
N - Neediness
O - Out-of-the-box
P - Patience
Q - Quality
R - Respect
S - Spontaneity
T - Trust
U - Understanding yourself
V - Verve
W - Wit
X - X'mas
Y - Yearning
Z - Zzz

I cannot affort to write all explainations in as its too long. For people who are interested, can go find the magazine and read page 24 and 25. Hee...

I will elaborate some of the tips which I find that its important to remind myself about some of them hee...

C - is for communication, which is vital in any relationship; maintaining that similar frequency is key to being able to articulate what you feel and what you want. Communication is not just about talking, but being a good listener and providing a shoulder to cry on.

E - is for expectations, which can lead to unnecessary stress in a relationship. The important thing is to convey what you want or need from relationship, so you know how to better love, respect and care for each other. Don't assume each of you is a mind-reader, then sulk when your desired outcome fails to materialise!

N - is for neediness, something to avoid in relationship. It leads to dependency, which is unhealthy because being part of a couple doesn't mean you should lose your individuality. So get out there and do things on your own; make solo plans and meet your friends or enjoy a night out with your colleagues. Ultimately, the only person you should depend on to make you happy, is you.

R - is for respect, that all-encompassing virtue that strengthens couplehood. It means listening to her whine about her boss from hell even though you'd rather be watching tv, or supporting his decision to take sky-diving (though it means bouts of worry on your part) because it's something he has always wanted to do.

U - is for understanding yourself, which is crucial in getting the best out of any relationship. Relationship counsellors agree that knowing yourself and your needs is an important step to finding out what you want from - and are able to give to - a relationship.

Monday, January 15, 2007

Battery Low

Dun know why... feeling low batt today...

Guess will sleep a bit earlier tonight to recharge my battery...

Btw brother went thailand liao... will only be back on 14 Febuary... nobody to "tok" to at home, luckily my godsister will be staying here for a week, can accompany me hee...

Hope tmr will return to full batt :)

Saturday, January 13, 2007

Old Old Photos

Mummy brought back some of her photos when she took it when she was young...
Lets take a look hee...

very familiar face hor... hee... looks like me taking a black and white photo??? hahaha


Lets take a look on another one... got my aunty inside...
This photo also got me inside ha...

Thursday, January 11, 2007

Everything is done!!!

Something happened at home and I have taken a 3 1/2 days urgrent leave. Anyway I don't wish to elaborate on it.

I would like to thank some people for last few days.

Thanks wen and yan for sending their regards... and I have to apologize that I let them know this slightly later... Anyway thanks friends....

Thanks my colleagues for coming over and covering up my work for me for these few days ...

Thanks dear for being "secretary" for the 2nd night, appreciated his help... and I think I will need more help from him in brushing up my chinese hee...

Anyway will be back to work tmr... XXX(my name) must JIA YOU oh!!!
Jia You! Jia You! Jia You!

Saturday, January 06, 2007

4th Blood Donation

HA HA... This is the 4th time I have donated my blood...
Everytime is an experience.... Let me recap...

First time... it was at ST... went for blood donation with another IA mate during office hour, that was both our first time... very excited hee...

Second time... went to Bloodbank with Wencheng... but he could not donate after the checkup due to his slight cough... so he had to wait for me outside ha...

Third time... went to Bloodbank again with my brother... but this time I could not donate due to low blood pressure... so it was me who waited outside this time round hee... However I did not give up, went for another donation 2 months later at Clementi CC... This time I can donate but nearly fainted at clementi interchange after the donation... Think its due to the long walk from CC to interchange... can only blame on myself loh hee...

Fourth time and its today... went to Bloodbank again with my brother and both of us can donate this time round... so happy hee... but there's little hiccup this time, the "nurse" could not find the vein but finally she still manage to find one... can see she is quite stress, keep asking whether I feel painful or not and she accompanied me throughout the whole process because my blood is flowing too slow ha... By the way, to keep a record, the hand I used is my right hand ha... I think probably the "nurse" has got the "wrong" vein because I feel a little painful now ha... maybe next time must use my left hand ha...

Anyway feels happy after the donation because its something meaningful. Hope more people will go for donation (under healthy circumstance) :)

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

2nd Day Of 2007

Today is the 2nd day of 2007... most of us don't have to work due to the replacement holiday...
But some of them has to go back to work today like my dear hee...

Anyway I have done a lot of things today, following is the summary:
  • Wake up at 7 plus to go for a jog
  • Came back eat breakfast, then iron my clothes
  • Next, do some housework such as changing the bedsheet, sweep and mop the floor
  • Watch DVD while doing some accounting
  • Then, drive out to get some things from bookshop
  • Came back decorate my organiser and try to burn the DVD but cannot, don't know why hee...
  • Go online to add a counter to my blog then write this blog
So the next thing to do should be...
prepare for work tomorrow, wait for dear's sms then SLEEP haha

What a meaningful and resourceful day haha !!!

Last of all, hope people reading my blog will like its NEW look :)

Monday, January 01, 2007

2007 Resolutions

Hmmn... Firstly let me do a rewiew on 2006 resolutions... let me do a checklist...
1) To slim down and able to wear the jeans I have bought in Bangkok -> CHECKED, can wear that after I came back from my France trip but think I have to do more exercise because now cannot wear liao. Think this resolution is completed bah ha.

2) Broaden skills and experience -> CHECKED, manage to get my class 3 licence although did not drive much nowadays. Another thing is I manged to survive with the current job for 1 year and 4 months liao, must congrats myself ha cos lots of experience gained.

3) To be happy with dear -> CHECKED, was quite a smooth sailing and happy year hee but still had a little hiccups here and there especially towards the end of the year. Its really not easy to think simple but will try hard loh ha...

4) Surprises!!! Get to travel by myself in 2006. Have been planning to do so but never expect it to come so fast. Its a really really nice experience. Will do it again if timing and environment allowed :)

OK, I shall update my 2007 resolutions.
First of all, shall continue my excercise every weekend. Its not only about slimming down, its also about staying healthy and releasing stress. Must continue with this good habit of exercising every week :)

Secondly, I shall try to look for greener pasture this year. Hope to become a school teacher though a lot of people have advice me that it is a tough job. I know that. But I still think that I will be able to manage it. Therefore, hope that everbody can give me the support.

Lastly, I have tried travelling by myself this 2006. I shall plan another 2 more trips this year, 2007. One with my family and one with dear. For the family one, I am planning to go taipei. For the one with dear. Has been missing the times travelling with him. Hope that can go Bali this year. Its time to relax and enjoy the sand, sea and sky ha... Last but not the least, Happy 2007!